Errol Milner Clifford 2006-2009

Errol Milner Clifford was born with a significant heart defect and a cognitive disability that prevented him from walking or talking. As we grieved the child we had anticipated, Errol’s full-bodied smile and irrepressible laugh turned our sorrow into joy, and taught us that many of the best things in life are unexpected. Inspired by Errol’s delightful spirit, friends, family, and neighbors rallied to support our family’s significant emotional, physical, and financial needs, through countless acts of selfless generosity. When Errol’s courageous heart finally failed him on December 23, 2009 we were left numb with grief. In these dark hours we listen hopefully for the echoes of Errol’s brilliant laugh. This blog is the story (starting from present and working back to Errol's birth) of the life and times of the amazing Errol Clifford.


Sunday, February 18, 2007

Welcome


This is a blog about my sweet son, Errol Milner Clifford.
I’ve created this blog for a number of reasons.
1)I think Errol will enjoy reading this (I hope he will be able to read) when he’s older (wouldn’t you?).
2)There’s lots of folks who love someone with Rubinstein-Taybi Syndrome (to know one is to love one) who might find something worthwhile herein. When Errol was diagnosed with RTS we were shooting in the dark. We read everything we could get our eyes on, and I think it would have been comforting to have had a bit of a sketch of what awaited us (although it’s different for everyone).
3)With a newborn son fighting for his life in the hospital and a three year old at home wondering what the hell was going on, I had tons of extra time on my hands.
4)People ask about Errol all the time, and I don’t always know what or how much to say. I hope this will answer all of your generous questions.
5)Errol’s Cool (with a capital C).
6)It helps me to make sense of this crazy and wonderful gift we call life.

If you are like me, you won’t have time to read every word of this rather obese blog, so browse through the archives (it's a chronological narrative starting back in October 2006, which later widens into more general musings on Errol's story), or if you are really busy, just look at the pictures throughout the blog and make up your own story. And as they say, when life gives you lemons, make a martini.

Enjoy. Errol loves you.

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