Errol Milner Clifford 2006-2009

Errol Milner Clifford was born with a significant heart defect and a cognitive disability that prevented him from walking or talking. As we grieved the child we had anticipated, Errol’s full-bodied smile and irrepressible laugh turned our sorrow into joy, and taught us that many of the best things in life are unexpected. Inspired by Errol’s delightful spirit, friends, family, and neighbors rallied to support our family’s significant emotional, physical, and financial needs, through countless acts of selfless generosity. When Errol’s courageous heart finally failed him on December 23, 2009 we were left numb with grief. In these dark hours we listen hopefully for the echoes of Errol’s brilliant laugh. This blog is the story (starting from present and working back to Errol's birth) of the life and times of the amazing Errol Clifford.


Monday, January 29, 2007

Kissing Errol


Errol’s been held for most of his waking life (perhaps it’s a record). He’s rarely awake and out of someone’s arms. He loves being held, touched, and kissed, but I’ve recently felt that he wanted to be on the giving end rather than always receiving (How did I know a thing like that? Have a baby, believe me, you’ll know). It was Errol’s turn to give. I turned my face to Errol so he could give me a kiss. He closed his little lips around my cheek. It must be a coincidence, a reaction, I thought. I did it again. He closed his mouth into a kiss, again, but this time, the kiss was followed by a squeak of pleasure. I offered him my cheek again, and he kissed and squealed again. We were onto something. After five minutes of kisses, it was his mother’s turn. The kisses and squawks of joy were repeated. Happiness is all around us, if we are just patient enough to let it be.

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