Errol Milner Clifford 2006-2009

Errol Milner Clifford was born with a significant heart defect and a cognitive disability that prevented him from walking or talking. As we grieved the child we had anticipated, Errol’s full-bodied smile and irrepressible laugh turned our sorrow into joy, and taught us that many of the best things in life are unexpected. Inspired by Errol’s delightful spirit, friends, family, and neighbors rallied to support our family’s significant emotional, physical, and financial needs, through countless acts of selfless generosity. When Errol’s courageous heart finally failed him on December 23, 2009 we were left numb with grief. In these dark hours we listen hopefully for the echoes of Errol’s brilliant laugh. This blog is the story (starting from present and working back to Errol's birth) of the life and times of the amazing Errol Clifford.


Thursday, September 10, 2009

a bo de deeeeeeyeeeh


Owen is singing again. Just in the few weeks since school started back, Owen’s been singing the first verse of Puff the Magic Dragon like it’s nobody’s business.

When Owen was a little boy and just learning to talk, he used to happily repeat his favorite phrase over and over again, "a bo de deeeeeyeeeh." We couldn’t figure out what it meant, and although we asked Owen over and over again what he was saying he would just respond, “a bo de deeeeeyeeeh.” We couldn’t figure it out.



Errol is far stronger and healthier than he was before his surgery. He’s sitting up, using new sounds, “wuuuuuuhhh”, and running for city council.

He’s a champ.

In addition to his new sounds, he’s back to his favorite phrase, “uh oh!” The other night, after his five gallons of medicines, we got an earful of uh ohs. It was wonderful to hear the little man back in tip top verbal form, but just what in the world is this uh oh all about? Is uh oh, just uh oh, or is Errol making some incisive comment about heath care reform? Uh oh!

Who knows? Maybe not even Errol.


After a few seasons of “a bo de deeeeeyeeeh” we took young Owen to a birthday party. As we all joined in singing Happy Birthday, Owen joined right in with a perfectly sung “a bo de deeeeeyeeeh.” Happy Birthday to you!

After all those “a bo de deeeeeyeeeh," Cary and I could not figure out that Owen was saying one of the happiest things a child can say.

Maybe one day we’ll figure out uh oh. Maybe, if we sing enough with Errol, we’ll know the secret of uh oh. And maybe, if Errol keeps smiling while he says uh oh, it just won’t matter what it means.

Uh oh!

1 comment:

Allison the Meep said...

Errol totally has my vote in his campaign for city council.