Errol Milner Clifford 2006-2009

Errol Milner Clifford was born with a significant heart defect and a cognitive disability that prevented him from walking or talking. As we grieved the child we had anticipated, Errol’s full-bodied smile and irrepressible laugh turned our sorrow into joy, and taught us that many of the best things in life are unexpected. Inspired by Errol’s delightful spirit, friends, family, and neighbors rallied to support our family’s significant emotional, physical, and financial needs, through countless acts of selfless generosity. When Errol’s courageous heart finally failed him on December 23, 2009 we were left numb with grief. In these dark hours we listen hopefully for the echoes of Errol’s brilliant laugh. This blog is the story (starting from present and working back to Errol's birth) of the life and times of the amazing Errol Clifford.


Wednesday, May 20, 2009

An Update on Errol's Health















We went to see Errol’s pediatrician, Susan Hunsinger (Amazing!!! Brilliant! Compassionate!) last Friday and she diagnosed a return of pinkeye, and a new case of the croup. She gave him more steroid injections (bye-bye baseball career) for his croup and new meds for his eyes. Poor Errol. And through all of his sickness, exams, drops in the eye, and shots in the thigh, he doesn’t complain nearly as much as I do.

Despite the new meds Errol wasn’t getting better. And then Errol woke up early Tuesday morning in a pool of his own blood. He’s been in a lot of pain lately, hasn’t wanted to eat much, and has been drooling and grinding his teeth a whole lot. So we went back to the doctor on Tuesday about that blood and Errol was diagnosed with an ulcer in his esophagus (which accounts for the discomfort and the blood). So we’re on new meds (an antacid and an ulcer coating medicine) that will make him feel better, and we are going to Greensboro on Friday to see a gastro-intestinal doctor (yes, the esophagus is gastro-intestinal – who’d a thunk it!) 

The G-I doctor wants to go in and scope the ulcer, but that requires a procedure with local anesthetic administered through an IV and any time Errol gets on an IV it’s bad news, infections, and a stay in the hospital. We are trying to weigh the costs and benefits of the procedure. Errol and Owen don’t like the idea either.

The new medicines (added to his Coumadin, aspirin, Zantac, and vitamins) are making Errol feel better, but his brother Owen is, understandably, nervous.

Last night I asked Owen how he was feeling, and he said, 

“I’m nervous, Daddy.”

I asked him what he was nervous about,

“Errol going to the hospital.”

I told Owen that it wasn’t going to be a long hospital stay like last time and asked him what would make him feel better.

“I’m going to make Errol a book, Daddy.”

Last night Owen made an I Love Errol book. He wrote loving words and drew beautiful pictures on a few pages of paper and then stapled the book together.

Owen loves Mama and Daddy and Errol, Owen wrote, over a picture of the whole family together in our house.

It’s a long road, and nobody wants Errol to get well more than Owen.




4 comments:

Betsy Towns said...

Your beautiful entry made me cry. I love Errol and Owen and Mommy and Daddy, too, and I will be thinking of you guys more than always on friday and Roman and I hope that we can help out in some ways. Thank you for keeping us updated. B

my new favorite thing said...

i shouldn't read these when i am pregnant. the tears are forming a pool around eli. i love you and miss you all. tou are a brave and beautiful family...and so much talent, steroids and all.

Allison the Meep said...

What sweet boys you have.

We're always sending good thoughts your way.

Mike Wakeford said...

What a brave little guy!! And what a great brother Errol has in Owen!!