Errol Milner Clifford 2006-2009

Errol Milner Clifford was born with a significant heart defect and a cognitive disability that prevented him from walking or talking. As we grieved the child we had anticipated, Errol’s full-bodied smile and irrepressible laugh turned our sorrow into joy, and taught us that many of the best things in life are unexpected. Inspired by Errol’s delightful spirit, friends, family, and neighbors rallied to support our family’s significant emotional, physical, and financial needs, through countless acts of selfless generosity. When Errol’s courageous heart finally failed him on December 23, 2009 we were left numb with grief. In these dark hours we listen hopefully for the echoes of Errol’s brilliant laugh. This blog is the story (starting from present and working back to Errol's birth) of the life and times of the amazing Errol Clifford.


Friday, May 25, 2007

Errol and Owen




















Errol and Owen adore each other. Owen is so gentle and sweet with his little brother, and Errol can just about stop looking at his hand long enough to smile for his big brother. What could be so fascinating about that hand, Errol? Someone asked if Errol sucks his thumb, I said, "No, he eats his hand." And judging by the amount of time his entire hand spends in his mouth, it certainly must be yummy.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Dear Jonathan,

I will say again how much like Paul Root this little one looks like. (His big cousin Paul is in Pennsylvania hiking the Appalachian Trail right now.)

What a fine big brother he has, isn't he lucky? Owen is beautiful, too, or I should say handsome.

Cary's brother played here in Athens a month or so ago. I noticed his name in the paper. Athens is a happening music place.

Love, Marigene

Anne Barnhill said...

Dear Jonathan,
I just saw an article about you and your family in the W-S Journal and felt compelled to write to you. I thought you might be interested in my book, AT HOME IN THE LAND OF OZ: AUTISM, MY SISTER AND ME. It's a memoir about what it was like growing up with a developmentally disabled sister and my family's struggles, joys and triumphs. I thought you and your wife might find it helpful for Owen and Errol. That's why I wrote it-so other families might talk about difficult things.
I'm a writer and used to teach at Guilford College in Gsboro before recently moving to Dunn, NC. If you are interested in knowing more about me and my sister/family, check out www.anneclinardbarnhill.com
You two lovely sons--I'm the mother of three! With two granddaughters and a grandson on the way.
Best Wishes,
Anne