Errol Milner Clifford 2006-2009

Errol Milner Clifford was born with a significant heart defect and a cognitive disability that prevented him from walking or talking. As we grieved the child we had anticipated, Errol’s full-bodied smile and irrepressible laugh turned our sorrow into joy, and taught us that many of the best things in life are unexpected. Inspired by Errol’s delightful spirit, friends, family, and neighbors rallied to support our family’s significant emotional, physical, and financial needs, through countless acts of selfless generosity. When Errol’s courageous heart finally failed him on December 23, 2009 we were left numb with grief. In these dark hours we listen hopefully for the echoes of Errol’s brilliant laugh. This blog is the story (starting from present and working back to Errol's birth) of the life and times of the amazing Errol Clifford.


Saturday, August 29, 2009

Hearts Beat in the Park



Today we were surrounded by the tight embrace of family, friends, and community at Seeds of Love for Errol's Heart Beats in the Park. Under a bright blue sky, folks were led through a metabolic workout (hubba hubba), yoga, and tai chi.

When Errol arrived (fashionably late) he was given a hero's welcome. It's amazing how much joy one little boy (with one big smile) can bring to so many people, and it's wonderful to see the heart of a community grow so big.

There are more Seeds of Love for Errol events coming up soon.

Here's an interview I conducted with Errol where I asked him how he liked the Hearts Beat in the Park festival.

Friday, August 28, 2009

Expecting the Expected

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Great, great, great news today from Dr. Hines: Errol's wound is healing nicely!
With Curveball, we've learned to expect the unexpected (which makes the unexpected actually not unexpected and thus....nevermind)
We've all let out a huge sigh of relief and we finally feel like we can start our lives back again. Which is good since school has started for all three boys, Cary is back baking, and the dogs are chasing the chickens around the back yard.
Here's to expecting the expected.
Time for more salsa dancing.

Monday, August 24, 2009

Soothing Healing


Errol is home and healing. Hooray! 
We decided to celebrate our homecoming with some calm and soothing post-open-heart surgery therapy: salsa dancing (Errol in my arms, not the other way around). We bobbed and weaved our way through he living room with Errol smiling and laughing and Cary and Owen dancing around us. Muevelo! 

Errol's wound seems to be healing and he's feeling better each day. Pretty soon Errol will be more like his old self than he used to be (???) In fact, I think Errol is on the cusp of having more oxygen in his blood and thus more energy than he did before the surgery. Errol 2.0.
We are so happy to have Errol at home and on the dance floor. We try to savor every moment with him.

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Headed Home

Errol is headed home (again).
We'll hope his wound heals up quickly.
Wish us luck. 

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Wounded Warrior

Errol is still in the hospital and has slept most of the day. He's not comfortable, but his wound has stopped seeping. 

Errol's medical team has concluded that Errol's wound is not infected (hooray), but we still can't explain why Errol's wound reopened instead of healing up properly. The other good news is that Dr. Hines doesn't think that we will have to go back into the operating room to close the wound, but that we can put a VAC on Errol instead.

Life has hurled one medical insult after another at Errol, and he's still the sweetest, happiest person in the universe.

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Back in the Hospital


Errol is back in the hospital (this picture is from Errol in the emergency department tonight). His wound has opened up and it's infected. The doctors have put Errol on a two day series of antibiotics and if that doesn't work they will put him on a VAC (wound vacuum device) to knock out the infection. Dr. Hines says that Errol's heart and lungs look good and that he thinks that part of Errol's syndrome must be an inability to fight infections (three surgeries, three infections). We will keep you updated on Errol's progress. 

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Climbing Down Mountains & Headed Home




People keep saying that Errol looks better than ever, that he's more active, that he's got more color in his face, that he should pull over and let his dad drive. Keep saying it! We are thrilled at our tough little man's recovery. Now that his blood is more oxygen rich, we hope for more progress ahead.

When mountaineers ascend high peaks and can't get enough oxygen in their blood they suffer from hypoxia which causes 
  • headaches, breathlessness, 

  • fatigue

  • nausea or vomiting

  • inability to sleep

  • swelling of the face, hands

  • and feet

  • and general weakness
I feel like Errol's just come down off the highest mountain. Let's see what you can do with all that oxygenated blood, Little Giant!

Saturday, August 15, 2009

Happier than ever

It happened tonight! Errol's blood is getting more oxygen than before the operation and Errol is funnier, sweeter, and happier than ever before. How can you be happier than happiest? Just ask Errol.

Friday, August 14, 2009

Homecoming


Only a week and a day since his surgery, Errol is home and healing. Errol’s operation was very successful and has significantly increased (and will continue to increase) the amount of oxygen in his blood. Our tremendous hope is that his more oxygen-saturated blood will give him greater muscle tone and higher cognitive function that might just give him the strength to walk, eat normal food, and perhaps even talk. We don’t really know exactly how high his blood-oxygen level will go and just exactly what it will lead to, but we can hope.

We carried Errol outside into the warm evening air and celebrated his homecoming with sparklers and Roman Candles. A dragonfly alighted on the flowers just beyond us, Cary lit Owen’s sparkler, and the dragonfly spread his wings and flew off into a sky filled with blazing sparks.